Tuesday, December 6, 2011

How to Deal: Ascendant Square Pluto

One person with passion is better than forty people merely interested.”
– E. M. Forster,
English Novelist

  1. Power and dominance are the themes that are often important to you.you  are likely to  appear like a control-freak.you have a fear of getting dominated by others , that's why you try to dominate others in turn .Don't be that insecure about your own power.Your power leaves you only when you give it to others,not before that.so don't get paranoid that everyone is looking for a chance to possess you or "rule" over your life.
  2. you have a powerful impact on people around you.something magical and invisible which leaves them either attracted and fascinated towards you,or totally horrified .you may not be even aware of such personal power that you display.become more self aware.watch your body language  because  most of the time  its in "don't mess with me" mode.
  3. you might find it difficult to communicate with all those "shallow" people ,who are so worthless that you  often feel like crushing them like insects.As if  there is nobody who can understand you.its not the case in reality.there are thousands of people who are naturally friendly and willing to spend some quality time.you need to be more open hearted to find such peoples. don't scare people off by your involuntary display of Intensity. don't intemidate people,it may make you lonely in turn.
  4. Luck may not be on your side until you channelize your volcanic energies into something productive .make sure all your energies goes in to something which has a  positive end.if you use it for your selfish gain it may backfire.never use underhanded,cunning tactics,it might hurt others who are closely associate with you.
  5.  you often run into troubles with the authority figures.learn to take orders before you become the man who gives orders.that is the eternal rule of life.no shortcuts.
  6. don't act ruthless,revengeful and aggressive with others or with your partner. don't become  too demanding  or irrational  of yourself or others.going deeper in to some matters are good but baseless suspicion or probing into somebody's privacy can make you unpopular.manipulating your partners is not a good idea.love under pressure is not  love at all.
  7. your destructive attitude should get a positive channel of outlet.enroll in a club like martial art or boxing where you will get  to know how to use your power constructively.
  8. to become more calmer,practice yoga or get in to habit of writing diary.it might help you ventilate your pent up emotions and energies.to get rid of aggressiveness and anger,you might consult a grafotherapist.
  9. learn to "let go" things,which are not working for you,or relations which are beyond repair.be rational.you will grow.your stubbornness can be your downfall.
  10. use your determination,persistence and conviction for the worthy causes.live for others.politics,secret agent,healing, finance, business these are the some of the fields that might attract you.
  11. you want to "win" no matter what.you understand peoples' motives so good that ,you often manipulate.if you do that for winning,it can serve the purpose momentarily,but when you will prob to the core of the matter ,you will find that ,your manipulation skill was the thing which won..not you.your capability and competence should have won people .its not being honest with yourself.you better try pursuation rather than coercion to get what you want.
  12. practice forgiveness.only spiritually powerful people can forgive others.before you forgive others ,forgive yourself.accept yourself.
  13. voicing radical  opinions may seem rude to others. you enjoy extremities.you love to "shake up the system". practice detachment.
  14. don't try to remake others .change yourself for others.
  15. acknowledge your failings.
tips

settle your inner conflict.

guard against paranoia,compulsion, addiction,obsession.

regeneration is your gift.

heal yourself

you invite conflict out of nowhere.

stay away from explosives and fire arms.

evaluate your sex-life.




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