double letters: intensities (pockets) of energy

(taken from THE BOOK OF NUMEROLOGY by Hal.A.Lingerman)

Double letter in the name indicates a concentration of energy,or a pressure which needs outlets.Without such outlets it can bottle up inside ,resulting destructive and inappropriate behaviors.

aa,jj,ss

you need to keep your mind stimulated and fulfilled ,or you may tend to be a smart or WISE GUY who comes across as a showoff and an egotist.Keep the mind ACTIVE and DIVERSIFIED.Challenge the mind and release the energy constructively,you think very quickly and are very verbal.

bb,kk,tt

You may need emotional reassurance or there can be displays of worry,criticism,obsessiveness over persons and details.Don't take it personally.Replace fears with facts.

cc,ll,uu

you have talents in arts that needs to be released and explored.Keep creativity and imagination alive.Find outlets for beauty and romantic feelings.

dd,mm,vv

you have a tendency to over work or to be rigid,you need good release into focused ares of achievements,such as a task to complete.Avoid drudgery or getting locked in to a job.

ee,nn,ww

you may have a tendency towards irritation and temper display,a possibility of lashing out or hitting something or somebody or using foul language to release tension and pressure,Sexual excess or addictiveness may become problems if energy is blocked.Watch out for frustration .Exercise regularly ,see the humor in life,and get some sleep.

ff,oo,xx

you may show extra involvement within family or social ties,issues in marriage and home ,enmeshment from early childhood ,Nurture and appreciate others Avoid sociopathic tendency.

gg,pp,yy

you may be involved in specialized research or deeper,concentration knowledge within a certain area.practice meditation in some form,Avoid too much abstraction or arrogant,elitist tendencies.

hh,qq,zz

you may exhibit mental dominance and forceful will power that must manage and be in control of others.Manage some area without domination ,condemning,or suppressing others,Overcome tendencies to be judgmental.

ii,rr

you give extra service to others. clear up unseen ,unexpected old business.Cope willingly with circumstances and demands beyond your control and personal wishes Let compassion and forgiveness empower a need that may seem extreme or unpleasant.


example: D E B B I E
= 27=9
The 9 gives humanitarian tendencies,and the double 2 stimulates personal concerns,needs and possible criticism or worries about those most loved and needed.

Psychology and Graphology

Thoughts lead on to purposes; purposes go forth in action; actions form habits; habits decide character; and character fixes our destiny.
- Tyron Edwards

I came across the term Graphology in a magazine when I was small girl,spending a summer vacation.After many years I finally started to prob deep into the world of graphology and believe me, it got me fascinated.It has the components of science and psychology in it.Although in India ,its still has to be recognized as a viable means to be used in the cases like criminal investigation,recruitment and in the psychological counseling.

Let me say some words regarding, how it works.As we all know that people can express themselves in 3 possible ways
1.by talking
2.by using body language
3.by writing.
So we can see writing is one of the most important way to express our thoughts and ideas.

In order to write we need "letters" to express our thoughts on to a paper.so letters were formed from some sound ,and sounds were originated from thoughts.

hence,THOUGHT > SOUND > LETTER.

so now we can understand THOUGHT is the most important part of any types of communication,whether its written,non-verbal or verbal.

here a question can arise which is :WHAT IS THE ORIGIN OF THOUGHTS?
Psychologist's have shown ,thought can be originated by two ways
1.physiologically ( behavior)
2.psychologically.

Here we will be discussing the PSYCHOLOGICAL background of a hand writing.
A new born child has hundreds and millions of neuron in his/her brain which are interconnected by SYNAPSES.These synapses are responsible for receiving or delivery of massages .When this baby is born most of the neurons remains disconnected except few those are absolutely required( blood,muscle,touch,hunger etc).

Every time the child gets new experience these neurons establishes connections( send massage) through the relevant neurons.Hence each experience is each connection.By the 12 years of age all the connections are completed.so the first 12 years of any child is very important ,in terms of which experiences he/she is subjected to.

If any particular FEELING or EXPERIENCE is nurtured,the neurons which are responsible for making connection gets coated repeatedly.This particular experiences enriched it self,and it becomes the normal thought pattern for the child.

Within the 12 years the basic thought pattern is set.If by any chance this is a negative thought pattern then this can affect the child in the long run. The thought pattern will repeatedly manifest through his/her hand writting.As the thoughts are the basic component of any types of communication (verbal,written,non-verbal),it can affect the character like this...

THINKING>>>Repeated thinking>>>ACTION>>>repeated action>>>HABIT>>>repeated habit>>>CHARACTER.

WE ARE WHAT WE REPEATEDLY DO.
-Aristotle

Importance of RAPPORT

Greetings for the day!!

Communication is the most important features of human being,It's the ability which has distinguished humans from other animals on the earth. There are 3 levels of understanding :

Relationship →Information →Action

Rapport belongs to the first stage which is the relationship.
The first task of any conversation whether it’s a simple chit-chat with a new acquaintance or a counseling session,building rapport is the most important .

Dictionary meaning of the word rapport is :a close harmonious relationship in which there is a common understanding.

It’s a sense when we feel another person is liking us.Its a kind of vibe or pattern matching process.Often we do this matching without words like matching body movements,eye contacts ,facial expression,tone of voice.

So rapport can me made by:
Verbal behavior
Vocal behavior
Physical behavior

In counseling session building rapport must begin with giving physical sings of being welcoming,relaxed and open.
The vocal tone can be the second factor in establishing rapport .We can modulate pitch ,pace,volume when speaking.


Example:
It’s a warm day is not it?
Did you find your way here all right?
Transport okey?

By the time we are both seated ,we would agree several times.The key is to find the common ground.It will give impression of – we are allies not adversaries. A little conscious effort can make huge difference to its out come.

The things we should not do :
Talking about my self
Asking the other person a direct question about them selves.

Until next time….

My Arts...

Every artist dips his brush in his own soul, and paints his own nature into his pictures. ~Henry Ward Beecher

How to deal: Ascendent Square Mercury

Hello !!

This is the 3rd part of "ascendent square.." series.Mercury is the next planet in the hierarchy.Square is a hard aspect and by dealing it with persistent effort and hard work you can not only deal with it but you might give shape to some of the talents which you already have .Hard aspect are boon in disguise of painful inner conflict.People just need to structure themselves in order to reap the full potential.

lets begin.
1.Make sure what ever you are saying are in harmony with your body language.You can find that out by observing yourself in a mirror and then practice in front of a mirror (if there is a large difference between these two things)

2.try to be sincere when you are praising, flattering or criticizing people. if you give them sincere praises and constructive criticism then you will be able to win people for real.

3.learn to relax ,specially when you are about to meet people or a potential mate.take a deep breath ,and try to collect your thoughts.

4.try meditation,yoga,physical exercise in order to control nervous energy.

5.avoid talking about every problem you face , with your partner or anybody you find- people might think you are un-smart.

6.before saying something ,be sure what you want to say.construct the sentences in your mind first then say it confidently so wont have to repeat again.

7.you might feel that you need to do a lot of hard work in order to catch up with other people --- you are right!!just use hard worker,honesty,positivity with it.when you will be successful on your own right you will become more confident,not jealous!!

8.ask other people to believe in what ever you say -verbally.

9.organize your affair ,keep a to-do list ,or an organizer can help you.

10.this energy can make you avoid large gathering or crowd due to your communication failure. Join some small groups or workshops ,educational class,start writing,forum.which will help you to structure your expression.

11.listen others and polish up your conversation skills. be tactful,diplomatic. polite.

12.use your ideas practically, use your curiosity positively,you can become a good researcher or investigator,use your broad range of knowledge to teach or in journalism.
you have knowledge of current trends.you can become a sales man too.

13.if you are shy and soft spoken,make sure other people doesn't bully you or twist your words,make sure you can put across ideas correctly.


tips
1.you are your own worst critic..you are damaging your own self respect and confidence.Try to trust in you abilities.
2.try not to compare your accomplishment with your peer.
3.be specific what you want to say.
4.don't expect to be loved by doing favor to friends or people.
5. develop you creativity.
6.evaluate whether you and your partner are in best mode of communication.
7. stop double message , you may sound unreliable.
8.you phrase things weirdly ( in writing or verbally).
9.don't over indulge in sex.
10.don't talk too much.
hope it helps,until next time..
bye.