How to deal Natal Aspects: Saturn square Ascendant

You are not responsible for the programming you picked up in the childhood,however ,as an adult you are one hundred percent responsible for fixing it
-Ken keyes Jr.

Hello Reader,

You must be surprised to see this post.Since you know Jupiter is the next in order in this Asc square series.If you are a new reader,I would like you to know,that I am very happy to have you on my blog, and If ,by any chance you were looking for this particular aspect in the search engine ,then I can say there is a similarity between you and me--we both want to Deal with it!!

As the quote goes in the beginning,its the thing that Saturn tries to teach us.Square is a hard aspect which creats friction and conflict inside our minds.We need a loads of positive outlook and hard work to make a deal with our inner conflict.But when this hard aspect involves SATURN then we need to try on much harder.

The best part of this square aspect is, it helps us to grow,to evolve,which makes our character and life better.These kinds of growths are never seasonal,,beacuse square aspect will always push you or motivate you to take some kind of action.its our responsibility to make sure that, this action we are about to take is ethical and good.Personally I like squares more than oppositions.

1.Dont underestimate your capabilities.All you have to do is "want".You have the enormous sourse of strength,persistence and perseverance.Make sure you use it in a positive manner.Short cuts were never invented for you.take long term goals and take one step at a time and stick to it...like establishing your own business or aiming for he post of the CEO.

2.Self doubt,weak faith on to yourself and lack of confidence are the trademarks of an unhappy Saturn.Ask your self, what are the things it did not let you achieve.Once you ask these questions,Saturn will show you the real picture, may be with some harsh colorings..but atleast it will help you to see where you stand.So always choose a challlenging job or goals.Dont run.Face the challenges ,just loose you serious side and go for some adventure or simple exploration ,gradually the path will get cleard..you will know your worth.

3.Cautiousness is good.But in your case it might be the reason for loosing some of the most promising opportunities.So dont over-plan or be too much of a perfectionist ,just go with the flow,let the situation unfold itself before you.It wont be a problem for you to deal with any situation. May be because you are inherently practical,have a good management ability and ...you are cautious.

4.Life is a serious business to you.Your aura often seems cold,melancholy or reclusive.Succumbing in to emotions is an out dated concept to you.You tend to rationalize your feelings and supress it.You ofen feel people dont undersatnd you...you can build a habit of writting diary or journals,indulging in your hobbies( hobbies are genrally close to once heart!).

5.Your life has taught you : "you have to pay for /earn everything ,nothing is free".If you look around ,you will see how many people are naturally generous and giving.Why dont you become more giving youself for a change? you would never have to pay anything for little compassion,love or affection..because they are priceless.
Dont be judgemental.

6.The quote in the beginning says "programming you picked up from the childhood".
The children with this aspect are often seem to have a difficult childhood.me too.My emotions and fears were not taken seriously,no hugs or pats for encouragements. There was a pressure to observe the rules and culture of the society,my dad is the head in my family and I had to obey him in every turn, conservative environment etc etc..If you can relate to these things from your childhood then ,I want to tell how how I have tackled it. Dont brood on what might have been,the time has passed,your childhood has passed.Now its time to create new memories. At least you will have something to tell to your grand children!!

7.Since emotional security was not the issue,you have turned to find materiel security.Some times you might want to possess everything which ever money can buy.Some times it can make you miserly.But In reality, emotional security cant be exchanged with the materiel security.Make sure too much materialistic attitude should not make you do unethical things.

8.You can be generous with gifts to loved once.You are a solid provider but choice of gifts should not reflect of your power, status or affluence.choose some sentimental gifts.

9.Saturn is as patient as the time itself.This aspect is often associated with a successful 2nd half of life.People might find you a late starter. Don't get frustrated with your initial failures or disappointments..make sure you have patience and work hard to make your foundation.. don't waste time.

10.Face your fears.In your natal chart the house occupied by the Saturn ,indicates the kind of fear you have.face this inner dragon.

11.You might fear responsibility and commitment to a relationship.Its easy to dodge responsibilities but we cant dodge the consequences of dodging our responsibilities.start with small responsibilities like,going to the market,or paying for the electricity etc.Personally I think, these responsibility-taking will make you see what you are capable of doing.

12.You get negative feelings , disappointed at the slightest sign of failure.You might feel you are unlucky or deprived. don't brood.Use some positive statements.You are not unlucky,you luck is there in disguise..just find it.

13.Develop a sense of humor ,watch cartoons or comedy movies.This might help you to deal with your caustic, sarcastic remarks.

tip:
a. don't act stubborn.
b.keep your mind open .( esp. to the possibilities)
c.good that you have a deep respect for authority ,make sure you are getting your share of respect for who you are.
d.you are more talented than you believe you are.
e.you often hesitate to approach a potential mate.
d.your partner can appear or be actually Older than you.
f.control you depressions.
g. control your suspicious nature.


Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things you didn't do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbour. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover.
- Mark Twain
have a nice day!!